Mother's guilt is a phrase I'd hear splattered around a lot before I became a mum and I have to admit it’s not something that ever particularly resonated with me (why would it though, when I wasn’t a mother?). But since having Max it’s something that I’ve felt acutely and I find that at the back of my mind there is often that nagging voice:   ‘A good mum would have done that differently’   On an average day some of the concerns that might run through my head go something like this:   ‘You’re too strict’   ‘You’re not strict enough’   ‘He should be eating more, that’s why he’s so small’   ‘He clearly eats too much – he just finished a whole adult portion there!’   ‘Maybe he would be better off ...