Ever since I can remember, Max has not been a fan of mess. He never liked messy play, painting, even messy eating wasnât something that he would tolerate. I distinctly remember that first summer when he started walking, and he would refuse to walk on the grass in his bare feet - he hated the feeling of it touching him. For so long heâs refused to wear wellies, and Iâve felt heâs missed out on so many childhood experiences because of his hatred of getting dirty. No jumping in muddy puddles for Max!
But over the years, heâs got gradually more accepting of messy experiences. His nursery key workers have tried really hard with him and now he loves painting and play doh - heâs just still very particular about cleaning himself up afterwards. And about 5 months ago, he decided that wellies werenât so bad after all.
For the past few months Iâve watched him become more and more brave in his exploits - jumping in puddles, squelching in the mud. Weâre very much an outdoor family and love getting outside, but Maxâs hatred of dirt and rain has meant that weâve been very much fairweather explorers. The rainy January weather has forced us to get outside and itâs been noticeable how much Max is beginning to embrace getting dirty. Heâll actively seek out muddy puddles and has started taking great pleasure in jumping in them and splashing anyone who has the misfortune to be standing too close (usually me!). Last weekend, he even strode out quite a way into a lake - at one point I was worried he was going to get water over the top of his wellies! So many times lately weâve got home and Iâve realised that all of his clothes are filthy, and while Iâm sure in a few months time that will irritate me, for now, itâs the best feeling ever. I finally feel like heâs enjoying all those things that heâs been missing out on, and enjoying being a child.
February 4, 2018
Yesterday I had to talk him out of trying to jump over a massive (and quite deep looking) muddy puddle: pretty sure that one would not have ended well seeing as he was wearing his regular shoes! ð
February 5, 2018
Ah Iâm so glad heâs easing into messy play - especially when it comes to muddy puddles. You really canât beat the messy outdoors! x
February 7, 2018
These are gorgeous photos Katy, and he reminds me so much of Eva, she wouldnât even like messy hands and I always felt a little sad about it. But like you said she did grow into the messy play and whilst I do think she will always be a little more cautious it doesnât stop her much these days. #TheOrdinaryMoments
February 8, 2018
Aww itâs lovely that he is embracing the outdoors. May there be many enjoyable outdoor moments together. #TheOrdinaryMoments
February 9, 2018
How lovely that heâs now enjoying the messier activities too! #TheOrdinaryMoments
February 10, 2018
Oh I am glad heâs enjoying it!! Weâve had quite a few water in wellies experiences so Iâm sure it wonât be long. Youâll be making mud pies before you know it! Xx #ordinarymoments